Canadian cartoonist Jason Marcy is neurotic, paralyzed by his worries over fatherhood, dental problems, and his tendency to run off at the mouth at inconvenient times.
In Rise and Fall of the Pasta Shop Lothario, he can't hide his more likable, human side, though -- and even though he's plenty neurotic and even a bit of an ass at times, the overall effect is rewarding and quite a fun read.
A number of short stories here put Jay's worst instincts in sharp focus: Here he is staring at his teenage co-worker's thong. Here he is relishing a quick glimpse of her bra, then stupidly announcing it to her. Jay's biggest problem is not the normal worries and fleeting bouts of unwise lust he suffers through, but rather his uncontrolled need to share every emotion and impulse with anyone in earshot, as soon as it happens.
You can see where this would be a difficulty for your personal life. On the bright side, it makes for mostly amusing reading, although I honestly marvel that the cartoonist is so open with his thoughts and feelings. I don't know if he's brave, stupid, or both, but damn if it doesn't make for compelling autobiographical comics.
At the center of this graphic novel is the long, complex saga called "The Big 'Un," the story of how Jay and Kris Marcy went through pregnancy together and welcomed their son Xander ("I can't believe you're naming him after someone in 'Buffy the Vampire Slayer!'") into the world. Pregnancy and childbirth would seem a hackneyed subject for discussion, except that it is, of course, one of the most harrowing and complex life experiences we can go through. Jay recreates the entire process with astounding verisimilitude, marking "The Big 'Un" as absolutely his finest story to date.
From the jittery terror of waiting for the pregnancy test to give up its results, to choosing names and dealing with the weird reactions of family members and everything in-between, Jay perfectly captures the long, freakshow road to parenthood. It's a marvelous story that surprised me with the depth of its genuine feeling and even choked me up a time or two. The story's even more effective for being set during the real-life SARS crisis in Canada, which had a pretty serious impact on the events of "The Big 'Un."
Rise and Fall of the Pasta Shop Lothario is the best thing Marcy's done so far, and the wonderful work he does here depicting his and Kris's experience with pregnancy and childbirth make this a must-read for fans of autobiographical comics, or anyone who wants to know a little bit of truth about what it's like to bring a child into the world.
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